Today is “someday!” Let’s go for it!

First name

Barbara

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I’m kind, fine, fun, and smart...Retired and loving it. My accomplishments are many; traveler; educated; college counselor and administrator; and an activist.
AND, I give a good massage, “throw down” in the kitchen, and, know what it means to be a loving mate: if I’m yours’, I’m yours’ alone, I’ve got your back.
Life has been good, very good. It would be so much sweeter to have a companion for the adventure. Someone to share in the fun, laughter. I believe that today is “some day.” It is time to do the things we’ve said “some day I will...” So, I’m seeking “a partner-in-crime.” Someone willing and able to live fully, with joy and enthusiasm.
A man that is smart, thoughtful, attractive, fit, cool. Someone who can make me laugh, protect me, and be my confidant/close companion and I will return these blessings to you.

Sign

Pisces

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 5 (1.65 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Butt

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Vice President for Academic Affairs

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Family, Dining, Photography, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Being picked up by a new friend that I have gotten to know (who brings Stargazer Lillies because he remembered those are my favorite flowers). Then, going to a Cuban Restaurant because he remembered that I said I must have been Cuban in previous life because I love Cuban food so much. I’ll bring a bottle of his favorite wine and dessert which we’ll consume later in the park talking and laughing about our travels, the things we have in common, and what we might have ahead.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Jumping off of a cliff into the sea...Living in a house where the Earth meets the Sea and the Sky for an undetermined period.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To see what God has made of, for, and through Mankind
in as many places as He grants me the Favor to do so.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Jazz, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Music, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

International TRAVEL; any Beach 🏝 with clean sand and warm water; Good Food; Outdoor R& B Concerts; Spontaneous Leggos to things happenings around town that have to do with Black Culture: Art, Music, festivals, street fairs, fundraisers, etc;

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Spontaneity, Oddities, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Companionship; Wit; Kindness; good looks; smile; Strength; Common Sense and Smart; a MAN of Black Consciousness; a Protestor Instinct; Style; Worldliness; Humor; Ego Size; compatible interests, especially travel; patience. Someone who in concerned about and acts to improve the welfare of other in some way. How he speaks about women from past relationships. How he treats his mother, children, servers and clerks. Someone who can expose me to new ideas and interests.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed