I am who I am, no pretending.

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New Beginnings

I Would Describe Myself As

I am who I am, no pretending. Looking to meet that man who will protect my heart as we grow a strong and lasting relationship on Faith, Communication, Friendship, and Creating fun memories. I live a healthy lifestyle to include fitness, healthy eating and being around positive people. I'm at a point in my life where I don't have time for foolishness from a grown man. I'm only wanting to meet a man who have some of the same interests as me, such as being a Christian, fitness, traveling and family time just to name a few. I enjoy outdoor activities like riding my bike, running, tennis even though I’m not good at it. I also enjoy hiking or just a walk in the park or along the beach. In this chapter of my life weekend getaways is a must from time to time. I want to vacation at least 2x’s a year. I love jazz, old school R&B, and contemporary gospel. I’m an excellent cook and it’s something I enjoy doing, however on Friday, you won’t see me cooking. Please note that if texting is your main form of communication, then I'm not the one for you. I still believe in chivalry and taking care of my man once we get to that point in our relationship. I’m a lady who enjoys fashion and knows when to step it up and when to tone it down for a walk in the park. You will never have to worry about me showing more skin than I should. This Lady will always be a lady.

If you love women with long hair, then I’m not for you as I’ve moved on to shorter hairstyles now.

I am selective about some things I just won't bend on. I’m only interested in dating Black men who are at least 6 feet tall, I prefer non-smokers, casual drinkers, and someone who is not overweight.

Other things that are a turn-off to me are having dirty fingernails or ungroomed facial hair of any kind. I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be, what I do expect is honesty, loyalty, and communication.

I'm a grown woman and want  to talk to a grown man not on here for any foolishness. I currently have peace and happiness and not looking for anyone to disturb it. If we go 24 hours without communicating then we should move on.

The right man for me will add value to my life and not disturb my peace and happiness. He will make time and not excuses for me as I will for him. I just ask that you be truthful about what you’re looking for on this site as it is ok if we are not a match.

My ideal 1st date would be a meet & greet in a public place like a coffee shop. I don’t drink coffee, I’ll have green or chia tea. Hopefully, our meet and greet will go as well as the previous phone conversations that got us to this point.

Know this about me: If you treat me like one of your many options, I will help you narrow your choice by removing myself from the equation. I have self respect. I won’t surround myself with negative people. I won’t give part time people a full time position in my life. I know my value and what I have to offer and I will never settle for less than I deserve.

I’m not single because something is wrong with me. I’m single because I LOVE myself enough to know I deserve someone who will treat me like the Queen I am. What ever happened to courting a woman?
This is my season and I’m starting a new journey one where If you are not looking to find a friend that organically grows into something special please pass my page by. Let’s be clear my love is unconditional, but your presence in my life is not. If a moment comes where you prove that your value of me does not measure up to my sense of self-worth,I’ll have no problem unconditionally loving the memory of you and moving on. At this point in our lives there should be no one playing games. Treat people the way you would want to be treated.

Are you someone who could possibly add value to my life?

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Leo

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

5' 5 (1.65 m)

My Ethnicity Is

African American